Despite Differences, Civil Discourse Is Still Possible

America is divided. Nobody is listening to anyone else. All we want to do is have our own cognitive biases confirmed.

America is
doomed to an ideological civil war along racial, sexual, class, and religious
divides. The best we can do is retreat to our own ideological bunkers and brace
for the coming war.

nothing we can do to stop it. Or is there?

I’m sure
you’ve heard this kind of naysaying before, and to be fair, it’s not entirely unfounded.

There are
certainly significant divisions in our political landscape, more so than there
have been in many years. But that has more to do with the rise of “outrage
culture” on both the right and the left than it does with inherent deep
divisions among Americans.

Ironically, it
is often the people who yell the loudest about our terrible division who are
the very same thought leaders who push increasingly rigid and uncompromising

It has
become quite popular to decry today’s division with one hand and fight
viciously for one’s own team with the other. Being an ideologue is sexy at the
same that decrying our deep divisions is fashionable.

But are
these grim depictions really indicative of mainstream American culture? Or even
of the so-called future intellectual elite?

A few weeks
ago, I joined
about a dozen of my fellow interns at The Heritage Foundation’s Young Leaders
Program to meet with a group of interns from the Gloucester Institute’s
Emerging Leaders Program, a program designed to strengthen the communications
skills of young Latino and African-American college students.

We entered
into a conversation about race relations, the state of the black community in
America today, and what we as the future leaders of America should do to help
communities that are struggling.

This past
weekend, we met again, this time at a hotel convention center in Arlington, Virginia,
to continue our conversation. Specifically, we focused on policy solutions to
problems in health care, school choice, and criminal justice.

The first
thing I personally noticed was how warmly both groups greeted each other. We
remembered students from the other group, and we were all happy to see each
other again.

The dialogue
got underway much more quickly this time, as we dove right into discussions
about how we as young Americans should fix the problems we see in today’s

choice is an issue that Heritage sees as vitally important for the betterment
of low-income communities, especially in large cities.

stance on this issue is very clear: We think that the more choice parents have
in where their children attend school, the better off those children will be in
the long term.

Merwin, a member of Heritage’s Young Leaders Program, summed up our position well.

concluded that the federal government cannot possibly know what is best for
individual students and that only parents truly know what best suits their
child,” she said.

If you talk to advocates or even staffers on Capitol Hill, they would have you think that school choice is a partisan issue. Clearly, that isn’t always the case. Young leaders on both the right and left can agree that the choice of where students attend school should be left as much as possible to the parents.

The participants shared policy insights in between group discussions. (Photo: The Heritage Foundation)

I engaged in
a lengthy discussion about health care, and how we as conservatives and liberals
alike should proceed to ensure that the system we put in place is both fair and

This conversation was sparked and guided by stories. We all told of our own experiences dealing with the American health care system, both for our own needs and for the needs of loved ones.

We were unable to reach as neat a consensus as the school choice group, but we were still able to come to a few points of commonality.

First among them: Individuals have widely varying levels of need when it comes to health care. I am a healthy male in my early 20s. I can expect to need to spend far less on health care than my grandfather, who is in his 80s.

On the other hand, one of The Heritage Foundation employees participating in our conversation pointed out that she has a pre-existing heart condition, which requires her to pay thousands out of pocket even after insurance.

Any system
of assistance must be built in such a way as to be flexible enough to
accommodate the varying needs of all Americans. We also agreed that the current
system is too slow, too complicated, and not transparent enough.

These are
specific concerns that can be targeted and addressed through legislation.

thought leaders on both the right and left were able to come to agreement on
these issues after only a two-hour lunch. Imagine what we could do with six
years in Congress.

If there is
a message of hope, it is this: As divided as America may sometimes seem, we
have far more in common than we think. Despite our disagreement, we are all

Despite the
dire words of talking heads on national television, after our conversations
between The Heritage Foundation’s Young Leaders Program and the Gloucester
Institute’s Emerging Leaders Program, I firmly believe that the future of
America’s politics is not just hopeful, it may even be bright.